hi there, sorry for the delay in replying.
Calabria in the southernmost region in mainland Italy, Calabria is split into provinces. Scalea is in the Cosenza province of Calabria.
Scalea has a population of around 10000 people, this population swells at least 10x in August because of Italian holidaymakers.
Internet access is readily available here, homes can have broadband internet fitted and there are many internet access ponts.
A 2 bedroom apartment in Calabria will cost approx €1000 per year to run, if you are looking for a low cost of living, look no further.
The whole Scalea area is sunny, is on the beach and there are many outlying areas which have something for everyone, the smaller outlying towns and villages are also on the sea but offer a quieter pace of life. Scalea itself can be very busy in the summer. The area is very beautfiful, inland are stunning high mountains while looking the other way you have bright blue sea
This areas certanly fits every ones of your requirements, in fact it exceeds most of your requirements as well. For property see
http://www.scalea-property.com
Please let me know if you need anything else.